Permanent Residency

We finally got our permanent residency! No more worrying about visa issues. Praise God!

Politics

Can't get away from all the political banter no matter where I look!
I think everyone in the US is complaining politics now, am I right?

Well, everyone in Brazil is talking about politics, too! And it's not even a presidential election here.
Here's a look at what local elections look like:

Getting stuck in traffic is a pain, but it makes life interesting! Here are a few signs from around town, too.

To catch you up

Here's what's been going on in the past few months.

Have you ever had to wait a long time for something? In the midst of waiting you may feel discouraged, bored, or just plain depressed. It can be frustrating waiting, but God is always there teaching. It's a time of highs and lows. You think your day is coming and then it doesn't. You hear news that everything is finally ready, just to learn that there is some new development. Then finally, FINALLY all that waiting pays off!

We must be stubborn people, because it seems that God is still teaching us about patience! Visas, the car, the house, and so very many life events have taken more than the usual amount of time.  And we get frustrated, discouraged, bored,  and depressed. Then, when we just can't take it any more we cry out to God and he gives us peace. I am beginning to think that if we would just learn to cry out to God first we wouldn't have to go through such an emotional roller coaster. Imagine that!

And after a good wait you are so much more grateful to God for the gifts he gives.

So, we are finally settled in to our new home. The reforms are done and it looks great! We are so thankful for the beautiful house we have. For the first time in our marriage we are in a house not an apartment (or room at a relative's house!).  We are learning how to be responsible home owners and about how much time you have to put into care-taking! We have been able to house Jeff's parents in our guest room for the past two weeks and are looking forward to the next two weeks that they will spend with us. 

We also have a new seven passenger car to enjoy! It is not the same make that we were looking at before, instead we purchased a Nissan Grande Livinia. It's been such a blessing to the ministry already! Jeff was able to help transport the American group that was here last week and we have been able to give more people rides to church because of it, too. With such a big car (for our area) we find ourselves asking all the time, who can we give a ride to today? 

The last few weeks (really month!) of school was extremely busy for Lindsay with grades, evaluations, an end of semester program, and English Camp! We had a great semester and a wonderful wrap up program through the English Camp (a VBS program for the school where we focus on encouraging the students to make a decision to live for Christ). We started off with an intern through World Renewal from the US in February and ended with two exchange teachers from Canada and the United States through a secular teacher exchange program.  Since our dear friend Emily Taylor returned Stateside we have worked hard to cover her many roles of volunteer communication and coordination, English teaching and outreach, and so much more!  

Here's what's on the board for next semester and how you can pray for us:

Teaching: Lindsay teaching Nursery (2's) as their main teacher and the first grade English class at the school. Jeff continuing to teach communication and technology classes at the school. Both Jeff and Lindsay teaching English classes at church in Lagoa de Itaenga. Please pray that we will be bold witnesses to our students in both what we say and how we act.  Pray as we revamp our English classes at church. We have had a significant drop in attendance. Pray that we learn how to best serve our community in this way.

Outreach: Lindsay is beginning to work with Rachel Winzler and a church in Carpina to help with an outreach called Massa Humana that reaches out to families who live in the trash dump in town. She also helps with a girl's bible study for the older girls from the school. Jeff is beginning to help with a soccer ministry at our church that has started because of the new multipurpose gym/meeting room.  Jeff also leads the youth group at the church on Saturday nights. Pray for consistency for us in these areas. Some of these events are held every-other week and are easily set aside (or cancelled) when other events come up. Please pray that we will work diligently with these outreaches and that they will impact the community for Christ.

Interns/teachers: This is a very busy area, so here's a list of names! We will be receiving a new missionary from São Paulo this next week, Suenia. In August, we are expecting one World Renewal intern to help teach at the International School from Indiana, Michaela Hawkins. In September we hope to receive a basketball/teaching intern Mike Westlake. Please pray for all of our missionaries that they will receive the prayer and financial support that they need to come. We will also may be receiving 2-4 international interns (from China, Russia, and Portugal) to work with our Living Stones program and our school. This it through a secular student-teacher exchange program. As an International School we seek new experiences for our teachers and staff. Please pray for them and that they will be open to hear about Christ, an opportunity that they may have never had in their home countries.

Almost there?

We have been in a weird waiting status. I feel like this is 2007 all over again for us, where we were just waiting for our visa to come through and thought we would leave for Brazil at any moment. Now we have been waiting to move into our house and are ready to move at any moment.

So there is still no electricity. It has been since early February that we first asked the electricity company to hook up our power but because it is a new road they had to get a project to put in two new posts in. Which meant doing the assessment then sending it to their main office to get approved, then sending the material, then assigning a work crew and date.

Well the good news is we have a potential date that they will come, the bad news is it is anywhere between May 8th and May 18th and it will take 3 days once they come. First we wanted to be in the house before Easter, now we wanted to be in the house before Melody's one year birthday which is May 18th. I am thinking this will not happen.

God's timing is perfect. From our 2007 experience we learned why God wanted us to stay in the US, mainly being there for friends in distress. So, it seems that there is a reason why we are not in our house yet. I know the longer we wait the closer it will be to when Ricardo and Family might be able to move into their house next door. It is coming along nicely and the workers have even started on Pastor Assuerio's house next door to Ricardos'.

House, Car, Life

It is pretty sad when you are giving blogging assignments in your class when you neglect your own blog. I know that the way of social blogs and such is basically being changed to Facebook. I guess everybody wants instant information. We now need to know what is going on less than a minute after it happens. I can't say I don't want the same thing sometimes, but sometimes you lose track of what someone is doing when you just hear all the small details.

HOUSE

 If you have not heard or noticed all of the house pictures on Facebook then...  WE BOUGHT A HOUSE! In November...

And are still not living in it yet. So we decided to do some improvement to the house before we moved in and well, everything takes a long time in Brazil. We are getting very close to be finished except that the closer we get the more I find other things that need fixed and/or changed. For example water is not getting to the showers because of the way the pipes were put in the house, so now we need to change of bunch of the pipes in the house to get the water pressure we need. I have put up a lot of pictures on Facebook about each step that we have done but here is a quick (haha) list of the improvements we have made in the last month:

• Loft on top of the kitchen area
• Cut the kitchen divider down and put on a granite counter top
• Change the location of the back sink and did the piping for the laundry machine
• Put in more outlets in about every room
• Made the outside walls around the property taller on 2 sides and put in bars on the walls
• Put in Bars on all the windows and doors
• Put in the back service area bars
• Added a roofed garage (open on two sides)
• Made a sidewalk

What we are currently working on:

• Stairs to go up to the loft area
• Putting this plaster stuff on the walls to make them smooth before we paint

What we still need to do:

• Paint EVERYTHING
• Change the garage entrance to make it easier to get in and out of
• Change the water pipes so that our showers work
• Clean up everything
• MOVE IN

CAR

We bought a 2005 Fiat Palio 1.8L HLX a year after we moved here with our Work Visa. It has been a  very good car for us but Brazil driving and Brazilian roads have taken their toll on the car. I have never been very good at car care outside of oil changes and making sure gas is in the car, so that has meant a few things that need fixed have turned into a lot of things that need fixed. Mostly minor stuff like grills for the fog lights and a new trunk cap thingy (hatchback car). But, now we are thinking of selling the car and it needs to be in better shape to do so. 
We are also praying about buying a 7 passenger vehicle next. We are looking at the Fiat Dobló. A few of our friends heard we were looking for the Dobló and did all the leg work for us. They found a 2009 1.8L Adventure Dobló for us at a very good price (for Brazil and for the year of the car). We were not thinking of buying the new car/van so soon but now with such a nice one and good price we might go ahead and buy it. So we need prayer about this and prayer that we can fix our Palio to get a good price for it as well.

Fiat Dobló Adventure

LIFE

Melody is growing like crazy. We really wanted to get moved into the house before she started crawling and getting into things but that did not happen and she is crawling all over the place, plus she is pulling herself up to a standing position to play.

It is so cool and weird to see her grow so much. I guess after her being a little colic for around 4 months I got used to her needing to be held so much and comforted. Now she is happy as can be playing by herself and crawling around. Lindsay and I feel so blessed to have Melody in our lives and I really enjoy being a father. 

Lindsay is back to helping at the school this semester during the morning and I only have to teach during the afternoon, so it has worked out great for one of us to be with Melody while the other is working. We feel very blessed this semester because of that. Lindsay will also be finished with her online classes soon. She is about to start one of her two remaining classes to graduate. Please continue to pray for us as we have had a lot of life changes last year and this.

If you are interested in helping us with some of the one time expenses we have been having I.E. Car and House you can donate to us at: https://app.etapestry.com/cart/WorldRenewalBrazil/default/item.php?ref=8200.0.7360555

New House Video

We are very excited to own a house in Brazil. This is a short tour video of our house before we have a few more things done to it.

Our Printed Christmas letter in Digital form

Most of you are able to keep up with us on Facebook, Skype, email, or our blog, but if your Amish or “unsubscribed” to our status updates: we had a baby! It’s kind of a big deal--you know--our first kid. Melody Anabel Cart Turner was born on May 18^th, 2011.  We’re quite certain 90% of all conversations in the past 6 months have contained at least one of the following words: baby, sleep, awwwwweee, or poop.  The first 4 months were crazy difficult (we thank God for all the help we had imported: Lindsay’s mom, Jeff’s sister, Jeff’s parents), but we feel so blessed to have her in our lives. It’s exciting to learn all about how to be Godly parents!

Melody was born here in Brazil which means she has all the rights of a Brazilian citizen. Before she was born we called her our “little visa baby” (aka, anchor baby). Since she is a Brazilian she has the right to grow up in Brazil, meaning we get to apply for a permanent visa.  We filled out all the paperwork and are waiting for the federal police to do a home visit (to make sure that we're telling the truth).  Her birth was very timely, since we were just denied a renewal for our work visas. Many of you remember how much prayer has gone into our visa situation. It has been difficult to get visas over the years and we thank God that we may finally be at the end of dealing with all that.

Since it looks like we've got the visa under wraps, we have prayerfully decided that it’s time to move out of our apartment. It has been a great place to live, but with no windows to the outside sometimes we feel like we live in a cave.  We are near closing on a house in a neighborhood next to the International School.  It’s small by US standards, but just perfect for us. We hope to close on the house here in the next few weeks!

Our day to day hasn’t changed much. Jeff still teaches at the International School and does communication for churches back in the US.  He's also a great dad. Melody loves spending time with him.  She lights up whenever he comes in the room! Lindsay will return to teaching part-time when the new school year starts in January.  We both still teach English classes and help with other ministries at our church in Lagoa de Itaenga.

2011 wasn’t all high points for us though, Jeff lost his last two living grandparents and we have had some struggles learning what it means to be new parents in a different culture. Overall we feel blessed, but stretched, taught, and disciplined, too! Isn’t that just how life should be? We hope that God has blessed, stretched, taught, and disciplined you in 2011, too! And we pray that he will do the same next year!

Merry Christmas, everybody!

Jeff, Lindsay, and Melody

Permanent Visa time

It has been a long time coming and it is nice to look back and see that God has always had everything under control.
We found out 8 days ago that our work visa (which was in process to be renewed) was denied. It took them 10 months to review it and decide that they were going to deny the renewal. 4 months ago Melody was born in Brazil and automatically became a Brazilian citizen. So when we got the official telegram in the mail saying we had 15 days to do something about our work visa, we got on the ball and got all our paperwork together to get our permanent visa. Basically there is a law in Brazil that says a baby born in Brazil has the right to grow up in Brazil. Since she can't just hang out in Brazil by herself, her parents are granted permanent visas.

The paperwork was a bit confusing at first, but after a quick visit to the Federal Police office we figured everything out. Two trips to Recife later and it looks like everything is turned in. Now, to wait again. Hopefully this time it will be less than 10 months!

From Melody Anabel Cart Turner

Big News!

Okay?

Okay?

You want to hear the big news?!

Yeah, do ya??




DO YA?!

We’re pr…

-oud to announce an exciting event!

Cheap trick, I know, but I really am SUPER excited about some upcoming events!


First, October 1^st will be a Huge-Blow-Out-Awesome-Fundraiser for our pastor Ricardo and his family.  Here’s some background (to let you know what a great guy our pastor is and what’s up with the situation):

• Ricardo and Jeff have known each other since Jeff was 9 years old and interned with him for three months in 2003. Ricardo is like a brother to Jeff and we probably wouldn't still be in Brazil if it wasn't for their support and encouragement.
• Ricardo has been to the U.S. three times before this, but never with his wife and two kids.
• In August, Ricardo, Kattia, and the kids were denied tourist visas to visit the U.S., and were told that they don’t make enough money or have enough financial investments in Brazil (like a house) to be approved for visas.
• Ricardo is a church planting pastor who relies on financial support from the U.S. and Brazilian churches. The trip planned was to help raise more support for his family.

Since they won’t be able to make the trip this year, we would like to encourage them by gathering support so that next year when they apply for visas they will be approved. This SUPER EXCITING event will also be the ONLY Indianapolis open house for the director of our ministry, Tele Moraes, while he’s visiting the U.S. in October. 

 Christ Our Shepherd Church of the Brethren

 857 N State Rd 135 Greenwood, IN  46142 (phone # 882-0902)

October 1 at 7PM 

There will be:

• Yummy, yummy chili
• Bake sale items
• Raffles
• Exclusive videos and interviews of Ricardo’s family & others!
• A silent auction and other fun things for the whole family!

  If you are incline to cook great chili or would like to offer other items for the silent auction call Jan Miller at 514-3899 to let her know what you would like to contribute!

The second SUPER EXCITING event will be November 17^th-December 4^th! Lindsay and Melody will be returning to the U.S. for a visit with family and friends. Let us know ASAP if you want to get together with the ladies for a visit!

14 week Baby and Ministry Life

Lindsay has had this "brilliant" idea recently inspired by a friend of hers and a missionary friend. Basically, our friend has always ran a Colts blog as a hobby, even when he was living overseas. Now, for those of you that know me you already know there is no way I could start a sports blog. She just thought it might be good idea for me to do a movie blog because I always get so, err, what is a good word here, "passionate" about movies. I either LOVE the movie or it was the WORST movie in the whole world. At least that is what Lindsay says I sound like sometimes. So, all that just to say, I am not sure I want to do that. I can barely do a post a month with our blog. I guess time will tell if I do end up doing something like that.





Melody is growing fast and keeps surprising us with cool new things she can do, or new sounds. We have been trying to capture a lot of the new things. So, if you are into watching super cute babies and such you can follow me on youtube.  There will be other ministry videos showing up also of course, but right now it is pretty much getting full of just Melody videos.

Lindsay is taking the semester off from the International School, but she is taking four classes online from Liberty University. That means she will need extra prayer for the time to be able to do all her homework. Melody has not been taking as many naps now which makes it harder for her to do the work. I (Jeff) am back to teaching computers for 1st grade through 9th grade. The cool new thing I am doing this semester is teaching Minecraft  with my four Design classes. It has been a fun experience. I had been playing a lot of a sandbox style game called Terraria and had heard about some teachers doing classes using Minecraft.

Basically Minecraft is a 3d version of Terraria with less monsters. For those of you who are completely lost, they are both sandbox style games, meaning you can gather materials from all over and build almost whatever you want. It is all about exploring, building and crafting. The short video shows a tiny bit of what you can do. I found some amazing resources for teaching minecraft so I have been using that. So far we have just introduced the world and how to move around.

I guess I will leave the big news for last. For those of you who did not even know our plans this will mean nothing but here it goes...

We will not be coming to the US this December.

Ricardo and his family (our pastor and missionary with WRI, who was hoping to come to the US for fundraising) were denied visas and ticket prices are super high right now.  Lindsay and I have decided that it would be a better use of money to stay in Brazil for now and try to go with Ricardo and family next year. My parents even bought a minivan thinking that we could use it to travel around with Ricardo. They are in California right now and needed to buy a vehicle anyway, but it was just an extra bit to add to the disappointment. I guess it will be there for next year, Lord willing. 

We're enjoying life with our almost 2 month old

So we're enjoying life with our almost 2 month old. Here's some adorable pictures...

 

4th of  July

Melody was born on this guy (Caleb)'s birthday!

That's not all though...
There are  lots of Americans coming and going. Next week promises to be a busy one - starting tomorrow! The churches in the town where our church is (Lagoa de Itaenga) are doing a prayer walk around the city tomorrow all morning and afternoon. Three churches are getting together with ours to walk around the town and cover it in prayer! Super exciting! Please join with us in praying for our community.
Then Monday and Tuesday we will have a mini VBS with a group of Americans and next week we will be lanching our new Sunday School program for kids (starting before the service instead of during).

Please keep us in prayer. This is my (Lindsay's) first time really getting back to helping with the ministry since the baby was born!

Also if any of you ladies want to hear the birth story (it's a little long, rambling, and a bit "graphic") then click here

What's going on now.

Well,  Jeff is off at the monthly Community Church pastor’s breakfast and I’m home with a sleeping Mel-Bel.  Time to write a blog post! 

It’s only the second of July and we’ve already seen one short-term missions team come and go.  Three more to go!   Our roles are pretty low-key this year.  By pretty low key, I mean we get to pick and choose what we want to participate in and help with.  Emily has lead organizing and planning on our end for the various outreaches, a VBS, the English Camp, and the Youth Conference.  We have some great groups coming down and they have done a lot of planning in advance on the US side.  

Jeff has an intern, Robyn Smuck, to follow the groups around to document their time here and update the ministry blog. It’s been great! Jeff still has a few projects, but now he won’t be away from home for long hours every day when the groups are here.  

I am so blessed to have Jeff around so much to help with the baby.  He has been awesome: helping cook, cleaning, and doing the “night shift” with the baby so that I can sleep! 

Ok, well I am going to try to get a little nap in, but I’ll leave you readers with a picture of Jeff's most recent project. 

Next time I'll post more Melody pictures.

Life with a baby.

So, lots of parenting going on this month. Melody's doing great, a bit colicky, but healthy.  Us? Well, yeah, we're trying to figure this whole parenting thing out. A lot of holding and rocking... and watching the baby in the crib to see if she's breathing, you know, typical new parent stuff.


Ok! Time for more pictures!

Escaping the swaddle and screaming, like she does.

 

Me & Mel

Jeff & Mel

Melody Anabel Cart Turner

Melody was born on May 18th at 7:50pm. She weighed 2.72 kilos (6 lbs) and was 48.5cm (19 inches) long. She has already gained back her birth weight and then some. She is doing well and so are we. We have been blessed to have Julie (Jeff's sister) and Jan (Lindsay's mom) here to help with the baby and food. At the end of June Steve and Ann will be here for the short-term mission trips and Ann will mainly help with Melody. We feel so loved and blessed by everybody that has given gifts and helped us at this time.

Now more pictures!

What happened to April?

Wow. Another month slipped by without an update. School. Church. Ministry. And of course we're still waiting for Melody Anabel to make her appearance. 

If you missed our recent prego Lindsay pictures on Facebook or the nursery here are a couple for ya:

 (yes that is an Ewok swaddled in the crib - doesn't he look cute)

The Pros and Cons of having a baby in Brazil

The Pros

Cost: The average cost of having a baby without insurance in a hospital in the US is $9,000 (normal & natural) to $25,000 (complications or caesarian). Our cost here without insurance? - US$4500 (same price even if there are complications) in a great hospital with a great doctor. 

Control over medical documents: In Brazil the patient has total control over their own medical documents and information. I retain all copies of blood tests, vaccinations, etc. and I have to give permission for a doctor to make copies to put in their records.  It’s nice not having to deal with a complicated process to transfer 

Line perks: I get to head to the front of every line or get in the special preferential line (a line for pregos, the elderly, disabled, or parents with babies in arms) at the grocery store, movies, clinics, hospitals (seriously everywhere). Wait time for anything is usually cut in half! 

Kids are more obedient at school:  Most people seem to think that pregnant women are the most fragile creatures on earth! Without prompting the kids at school are constantly telling each other to be good because the baby is sleeping and they don’t want to scare her (ha!).

Friends help: I have really felt God’s love from some of our friends down here.  Friends at school have stepped up to take over my classes so that I can back down from teaching early.  Other friends have recommended doctors, made phone calls for us, and helped us figure out the medical system here. And some good friends from church and school are throwing a Chá de Fralda (literally a “diaper tea”) for baby and me tomorrow! 

Visa: A shiny new PERMINANT visa will come along with our shiny new baby!

The Cons

Different medical system: It’s difficult getting used to a different way of doing medicine. Do you get to pee in cup at your doctor’s office? Not me. I have to go to a special clinic to have blood drawn and urine samples, etc. and another separate clinic to have ultrasounds done. Usually there is a long wait to get into the ultrasound clinic (no preferential line if everyone is pregnant). Then it’s usually a 3 to 10 day wait to find the results of the tests. Then back to the doctor for the reading of the results.  Where does all this take place? Usually an hour from home in Recife. 

Old-fashioned ideas about pregnancy: Again, most people seem to think that pregnant women are the most fragile creatures on earth! I can’t pick up a pencil without being scolded.  Suddenly I am incapable of driving, walking anywhere, or carrying anything!  I was told by another person not to wear belts because it could give my baby a cleft lip.  Although I do appreciate how nice people are about opening doors for me.

Different idea about caesarian births:  People usually have two questions when they see that you are pregnant here. First, what’s the baby’s name? Second, are you having a normal birth or caesarian birth?  80% of women in Brazil have a caesarian birth in private hospitals. And 30-50% of women in public hospitals have a caesarian. These are 90% elective procedures.  It’s been tough to convenience people that I really am going to have a natural birth, Lord willing.  Many hospitals here have to adapt their caesarian operating room for normal birthing room!  Luckily, my doctor is very much on my side with the normal birth plan, but if something does go wrong everything is well equipped to perform a caesarian! 

Far from home: We are pretty far from many of our friends and family, so many people won’t get to meet little Melody Anabel until long after she is born. But technology and transportation provides some advantages! Some friends and family there are throwing me an over-Skype baby shower!  We will also be blessed to have Julie (Jeff’s sister) here to help out in May, along with my mom. Then Jeff’s mom will be visiting shortly after! God is so good. 

Now I have seen it all

Our church has been having issues with the guitar that is used for worship recently. So, they borrowed a guitar but it needed a 9 volt battery for the sound to go through the sound system. So again they found someone who had a rechargeable 9 volt battery. Well, the problem was the battery was not charged and it was 5 minutes before worship time. They did not have the charger either. Now our church is in a small town, so there is no Wal-Mart or really any store open on a Sunday. In my mind that means tough luck we won't be using the guitar, but this is Brazil we are in. Next thing I know the guitarist is asking me to pop the hood of Pastor Ricardo's car and he has the 9 volt in hand with a electrical wire sticking out of the positive side of the battery. That's right he used the car battery to jump start/recharge the 9 volt battery. The battery actually worked after that. He got through 3 out of the 4 songs before it lost its charge again.

I am continually amazed at what they can repair here and how MacGyverish people can become.

Lazy Days

Okay, confession time. 

We have a lot of vacation time here in Brazil.

Between the many celebrated holidays and vacation time we have a lot of downtime here in Brazil.  During the school year there are a number of celebrated holidays off (e.g., Saint John’s Festival and Carnival).  We also have the months of July and January (from Christmas to February 1^st) off of school. I’ve never really calculated it, but it seems that we probably have at least 10 days more time off than the average school teacher in the US.  

And I’m not going to lie we usually don’t do a lot during breaks.  Sure sometimes there are church events and banquets, but they aren’t the norm.  

There are times before a vacation where we feel like we have some project, church outreach, or school obligation going on all time.  For some people (extroverts I suppose) this is exciting and invigorating, but for us (we’re somewhat introverts) it’s exhausting and tense. 

After spending most of the day at school sometimes we feel too exhausted to go out with friends and minister to people.  It seems like during our vacation time God gives us the energy and time to do more of that.  And more often than not we get to reconnect with family and friends from the US during vacations.  Last January my folks came for a visit and this year Jeff’s family is visiting.  During July (and sometimes January) there are short-term mission groups visiting. 

I think the biggest benefit of the breaks, for us and others in ministry here, is a time to reconnect to God and refocus our ministry goals.  We return from the break energized.  We do a lot of preparation and refocusing on what God’s plan is for our ministry.

My presence will go with you, and I will give you rest. -Exodus 33:14